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Freeballing
The Four Seasons almost got it right. Then it panicked.
Aug 11 • Avery D. West
What I’ve Learned from the Manosphere
It's not what you think.
Aug 3 • Avery D. West

July 2026

Lust vs. Love (and the Third Thing Nobody Warned You About)
What's the difference between lust and love? An anthropologist spent her career on it. The answer is: wrong question.
Jul 20 • Avery D. West
5 Things Nobody Tells You About Rome
But you really should know
Jul 10 • Avery D. West

June 2026

At last!
Rome When It Rains is out.
Jun 30 • Avery D. West
Happily Ever After (And Other Recent Inventions)
I'll guess what a good relationship looks like to you. Two people meet, fall in love, move in together. Probably get married. Maybe children. Ninety…
Jun 22 • Avery D. West
Cheating is Bad. Probably.
America is certain. Europe? Well...
Jun 10 • Avery D. West
This Sucks
On making things and the people who just watch.
Jun 1 • Avery D. West

May 2026

Love Ain’t Like the Movies. It’s Better.
Love After 30 — Ep. 5
May 20 • Avery D. West
The Continent That Forgot Its Own Birthday
Two days ago was Europe Day. Probably news to you. Definitely news to most Europeans.
May 11 • Avery D. West

April 2026

Sex, Honestly
Love after 30 — Episode 4
Apr 30 • Avery D. West
Emma Bovary Would Have Had a BookTok Account
Flaubert tried to warn us. We turned his warning into a genre.
Apr 20 • Avery D. West
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